As you will see over the past few weeks I haven't been blogging that much, that is because in the 'real world' I have been making some big changes in my life. Now they are changes I have been putting off for a while and avoiding because they cause pain for people but ultimately I believe if you are going to talk it then you should walk it and therefore I have had to change things which ultimately I believe, in the long term, will be for the better.
But how many of us don't do that? How many of us put up with low grade misery in our lives so we avoid the short term high grade misery of doing something about it ?
A friend of mine died last weekend in a motorbike accident and it just polarises for me that fact that you get one shot at life, one chance to be happy and to fulfill all the hopes and dreams you had as a child, you get one chance to make a difference and leave an impression on the planet and therefore if your life isn't working for you then change it...
That doesn't mean just blow your world up, it means looks at what works for you in your life and get more of it, and look at what is destructive and not working for you and let it go.
People come and go from our lives. Love remains. Letting someone go means that we respect their dignity, humanity, and choices. It does not mean that they will never come back in our lives in some capacity. Nor does it mean that we stop caring for them or missing them. It does mean that love is not clingy or controlling. People we love must be free to come and go as they please.
